Dementia friendly group supporting Henny’s journey as a carer

It's the emotional and social side of being a carer that Henny has found challenging following her husband Ken's diagnosis in 2021.

Henny Thompson, retired nurse aged 71, cares for her husband Ken, 68, who was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s in July 2021. As Ken’s condition has progressed, Henny has gradually taken on more responsibilities in her caregiving role.  

As a retired medical professional, Henny values the importance of clinical trials, knowing that even if they didn’t help Ken, they can help grow doctors’ understanding of the disease and potentially ease other people’s symptoms.  

Unfortunately, Ken did not benefit from clinical trials and has since suffered brain bleeds, his health deteriorating over the last year.  

Being Ken’s primary caregiver means that Henny has less time to look after herself and get out of the house. 

Henny enjoys attending carer groups where carers are treated to events like movies, dinners, comedy shows and craft activities. However, she finds it difficult to organise alternative care for Ken and can’t to participate as much as she’d like to. 

That’s why VMCH’s monthly Craft Workshops, hosted by Scoresby Bunnings, appeal to Henny.  Here, carers are encouraged to bring the person they care for and participate in a craft activity together.  

Henny can relax and enjoy the company of other carers, knowing that Ken is in a familiar and safe setting. 

Being among other carers and their care recipients helps Henny to feel accepted and understood.   

Thanks to a Dementia Australia grant, VMCH will run seven more programs like the Bunnings Craft Workshops. These social support groups are hosted in community centres in both regional and metro areas, including Noble Park, Bundoora, Werribee, Geelong, Ballarat, Shepparton and Wangaratta. 

With new activities to try like the ‘No Brush Art’ class, gardening and Boccia (modified lawn bowls), carers and their loved ones can choose which option best suits them. 

 “I’m excited for the garden group,” Henny, a budding green thumb, says. 

Henny credits her friend Gloria with encouraging her to join her first Bunnings Workshop when Ken was first diagnosed. To other carers unsure if this group is from them, Henny says, “you can usually you can tell the first time you come if it will work. Just try it and see what you think.”

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